Thanks for the answer, that seems like a fair one.

I guess I just disagree with saying that ANY cheating is ALWAYS a horrible thing. If our experiences play a role in how we decide what is moral, then someone who experienced something very different than you might arrive at a different conclusion. So I think we can say what's right and wrong for ourselves based on the kind of example we want to set and that kind of thing, but as long as people aren't causing direct harm it's hard to point the finger and say they're immoral because we don't know what happened in their life.